People tend to notice changes in their bodies before others do. But sometimes, changes aren't so obvious. However, your partner might notice something.
Partners often pick up on subtle changes in each other’s behavior, mood, and health before the individual does. This attentiveness can help them identify when something's not quite right with your health. Addressing health concerns as early as possible usually leads to better outcomes.
If your partner is a man, you might notice changes in his urinary or sexual health. If you do, encourage him to see a doctor for a check-up and to talk about what's been different. The changes could stem from a non-cancerous prostate condition, or it could be related to prostate cancer. Taking action early is especially helpful if the cause is prostate cancer.
Partners are in a unique position to spot patterns or symptoms that may signal a health concern. Ask yourself these questions:
While these issues could indicate prostate cancer, they may also result from other non-cancerous conditions. Early medical evaluation is the only way to determine the cause so you can develop an appropriate plan of care.
Prostate cancer symptoms don’t usually appear until the cancer has grown for a while, putting pressure on the bladder or causing pain. It’s a good idea to see a doctor every year, at a minimum, to discuss prostate health. Annual prostate cancer screening is also in order starting at the age of 45, even though prostate cancer most commonly affects men over 65.
If you have risk factors, it’s even more important to stay on top of regular screening. Risk factors include a family history of prostate cancer, smoking, or obesity.
If your partner is reluctant to schedule a visit, offer support by:
Prostate cancer screenings include two parts:
A high PSA test result doesn’t automatically mean a cancer diagnosis, especially if no lumps are found. Many non-cancerous conditions can also lead to elevated PSA levels and may require treatment. In most cases, a follow-up PSA test will be scheduled in the coming months to determine if levels return to normal or continue to rise. You should also continue monitoring any symptoms during that period of time to see if they get worse.
If you or your partner notices more changes, be sure to bring them up during the follow-up PSA test appointment. If several screening results suggest further evaluation is necessary, additional tests like a prostate biopsy may be recommended to confirm or rule out cancer.
If prostate cancer is detected after a biopsy, treatment options depend on the stage and aggressiveness of the disease.
Prostate cancer has one of the highest survival rates of any cancer and can be cured if it's detected early. Today, even men diagnosed with advanced prostate cancer can have a better outcome thanks to improved treatment options.
A prostate cancer diagnosis can significantly impact your partner’s emotional and sexual well-being, leading to feelings of anxiety, fear, and uncertainty about the future. This diagnosis can also affect self-esteem and body image, as well as create concerns about intimacy and sexual performance.
Additionally, crucial decisions may need to be made regarding treatment options, such as whether to undergo surgery, radiation, or other therapies. Each choice comes with its own set of potential side effects and implications for your partner's health, which can, in turn, affect your relationship.
During this challenging time, open and honest communication is absolutely vital. It is important to create a safe space where both partners can express their fears, hopes, and needs without judgment. Mindfulness practices can help both of you stay present and manage stress, while gentle touch and shared intimacy can foster a sense of closeness and reassurance. Engaging in these practices can help strengthen your relationship, providing a foundation of support and understanding as you navigate the complexities of a prostate cancer diagnosis together.
If you or your partner has received a prostate cancer diagnosis, the specialists at New York Oncology Hematology are here to help. Our expert team offers personalized prostate cancer treatment plans which often include active surveillance before starting treatment. Remember, surgery is not your only option. We encourage you to look at options that allow you to avoid, or delay, prostate removal surgery.
You can request an appointment at one of our locations throughout the Capital District, including Albany, Amsterdam, Hudson, Troy, and Clifton Park, New York. Second opinions are also available and encouraged. Talk about your options before making a decision.